Where is the part circled found?

 

Here's a picture of the diagram with your part correctly labeled.

Number 46

Torque Rod

 

Do I find it by going under and removing the splash shield or from under the hood? Mine is 2-wheel drive so I’ll be looking for bracket #44.

 

There are two 19mm nuts visible with the splash shield installed. Remove those nuts, remove the splash shield, and with a combination wrench remove the two 14mm bolts on the transmission itself. Pretty straight forward.

Remember to support the trans with a jack and block of wood when you remove the mount.

 

I’m guessing either this support was removed or not there on this model.

View toward passenger side.

View toward driver side.

 

I can't see the area where it would be on these photos. Watch this.

 

This is the area I expected to find the torque rod. These empty bolt holes suggest it’s missing? That video was for a more forward mount, not the mount pictured in the parts diagram.