It was the transmission torque mount, changed it, no vibration or annoying sound. WOO-HOO!
Vibration at stop lights while in gear but it stops vibrating when placed in neutral, it only does it when I come to a stop, after driving. It will not do it in the drive after backing out of garage. I have changed motor mounts (not all) top round on e and bottom passenger side, It did take a very hard bash on the bottom on a recent trip the vibration seems to come from the right side. I have have changed the belt, new plugs. No vibration at any speed or while moving. I think its the transmission I don't know why I just think it.